I have a lot of guy friends and they treat me like a guy, but lately I've been dressing more girlyish and they still don't notice me! Am I that ugly that cant look at me as more that "one of the guys"?
Without seeing how girlishly you have been dressing, one can only speculate. As much as she appreciates girliness, Miz Fitz believes it is possible to overdo it to a point where boys will be afraid to look at you for fear of overdosing on your pink magnificence.
For another point of view, here is Courtney Conway: